well,....
take me for eg, i am at my happiest in my fave scruffy jeans and sloppy teeshirt, and trainers, thats "me" in a way..., BUT if posting a photo on here, i aint gonna do that am i?
so whats with the bloody going-to-work/pub-with-the-chavvy-lads clothes photo?

your still a young man, and i imagine not an ugly one,
so just think how you project youswelf, without going into all that Gok Wan wank,(how to look good nalked), unless you wanna little skank who will F**K u over, then just think about your wording and photos!
you can do it mate! what u got to lose?
and yeh, i know, many guys will say "but thats just me" NO IT F**KIN isnt, its your old single-self lonely ego, or an ego from a past and dead relationship...
you get my drift buddy?

GO FOR IT