guys tell me, wats ur thoughts on girls getting in contact with u first, or asking u 2 meet up, iv mailed guys b4 but never actually asked if they would like 2 meet, guess im scared in case they thought i was easy, so wat do u guys honestly think

no-ones going to think youre easy, just cos you make the first move. Make the first move, meet them in a bar and get so drunk that you fall forward and barf on their crotch, then score with someone else. Then barf on their crotch again, before leaving with the other guy. Then theyll think youre easy.

lol, that woundnt go down 2 well lol,

personally i would think that it was a mate of mine taking the p**s or someone doing it for a dare. but i would be flattered as hell i suppose. But when it comes down to it i don't think that there is any problem unless she is an axe murderer in which case.... lol

Honestly if the guys are to scared to make a move it's up to us women to make the magic happen. Also remember this it's not the old days where guys did come up and ask you out, Now a days the table has turned and it's the women doing the asking....And theres nothing wrong with that !

if this is the modern times why do women not come up to you in a pub it,s the men who have to do all the chaseing

tell the truth u like to see us squirm

Same question has been asked in another thread and discussed at length....general view is that it's a good thing for the woman to make the first move, a lot of good looking guys are a bit 'reluctant' to make the first move (okay...maybe a bit shy), so 'go for it girl'...whats the worse that can happen?

Always happy to have someone else make the first move. Sometimes in comes from those you least expect.

there is nothing more flattering than a girl coming on to us guys so when it happens its hard for us to believe it we do tend to think our chain is being yanked if you get my drift, but be cool if you can get a good banter going everything else will slip into place.

If nefin i'd b quite reluctant to make tht move, i'd most certainly exchange mails n addy's but unless i know i've got a connection wif th person i wud leave it up to them. Ill always act accordingly but a i'm still tryin to figure out what site is best it's hard to judge. As such i have got plans wif sum1 from blackburn to meet but not until october, th 2 of us hit it off from th moment we spoke on msn, it jus feels lyk i've known her 4 ages and we r into near enuf th same fings. Wen ya've made th initial contact n there's a connection then things shud jus flow naturally.

if a woman didnt make the first move on me i'd never have had a date. That hasn't happened in years so i guess girls are just as shy as i am. I always wait for the woman, all these signals and stuff confuse the hell outta me. I think if a woman is interested in you then she could at least let you know on here by adding you to her favourites same for the guys shy or not. At least then you know they might like you a little.

I'd hate to be a guy in the traditional sense, always having to make the move and risking rejection. However that is why men have balls, I suppose. That said, the same rules apply to both genders as far as we Canadians see it. If the signs are there, go for it. If they avert their heads when you try to get eye contact going, then that should tell you! I don't think it matters whether you're a guy or a gal, it's always flattering to have someone tell you they are interested.