People not answering their messages is just plain rude, after all its the reason we are all here is to view profiles and message each other. if you message someone asking did they have a nice weekend, your not asking them to jump into bed with you, so a simple reply wont take up too much of their precious time. its free to do so its not like your asking for a loan of money lol a few seconds is all it takes, who cares if your interested in the person or not, a simple use of your manners isnt very hard to do.

I agree. I've lost count of the messages I've sent to people and never received a reply. I even changed my deoderant because I thought they weren't replying because I smelled!!!

opps looking back 2 check 2 c if im the guilty one lol
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Me thinks when you don't get a reply, it's cos she is busy responding to texts which she prefers to give priority attention. Pretty ladies on flirtbox.net are plenty and no doubt selective/ Occasionally cool dudes draw the short straw again. I must be lucky i get replies but not all the time. A polite no thank you is cool. Have fun guys. Its the discriminative side of a person's instinctive nature in the art and process of selection. You can't have it all that you desire. If i did i surely know that i won't be here. My theme is: It [you] don't mean a thing if you ain't got that thing'. whatever that 'thing' is. Adios Amigo mio's'

But..how about if they ARE asking you to jump into bed with them?

If I get a message saying something like "Hey sexy, you up for it then?" I have no interest in replying. Is that still rude?

Some people don't have the time to answer questions from strangers about their weekend. It may be deemed as rude but it's just the way it is.

saucer of milk over here he he he

I hate the "how was your weekend" "Hi how are you" messages, they are so boring, if you want a reply from someone, especially women make a bit of an effort, take some time to write something interesting or make them laugh. Especially when you get a lot of messages (nearly 3000) the minor boring ones you are not going to bother with!

actually.. it's not rude.. threads like this demanding people answer is actually extremely rude and inappropriate.

It is the recipient's prerogative to respond or not. demanding they answer? wrong and probably shows you have some sort of insecurity issues or some other pshycological condition. It is their right to respond or not.

Or perhaps they don't even find you interesting enough to carry on a conversation with you. Are you getting the general jist of this?

man up and stop acting like a child.