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18.06.2007, 09:42 quote

november77
november77 Joined: 10 Jun 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Ireland, Monaghan, Culloville
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People not answering their messages is just plain rude, after all its the reason we are all here is to view profiles and message each other. if you message someone asking did they have a nice weekend, your not asking them to jump into bed with you, so a simple reply wont take up too much of their precious time. its free to do so its not like your asking for a loan of money lol a few seconds is all it takes, who cares if your interested in the person or not, a simple use of your manners isnt very hard to do.

 

20.06.2007, 10:32 quote

micko2
Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Ireland, Kildare, Wolfhill
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I agree. I've lost count of the messages I've sent to people and never received a reply. I even changed my deoderant because I thought they weren't replying because I smelled!!!

 

20.06.2007, 11:51 quote

irishlgirl74
irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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opps looking back 2 check 2 c if im the guilty one lol
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08.07.2007, 14:01 quote

Anonymous

Me thinks when you don't get a reply, it's cos she is busy responding to texts which she prefers to give priority attention. Pretty ladies on flirtbox.net are plenty and no doubt selective/ Occasionally cool dudes draw the short straw again. I must be lucky i get replies but not all the time. A polite no thank you is cool. Have fun guys. Its the discriminative side of a person's instinctive nature in the art and process of selection. You can't have it all that you desire. If i did i surely know that i won't be here. My theme is: It [you] don't mean a thing if you ain't got that thing'. whatever that 'thing' is. Adios Amigo mio's'

 

22.10.2007, 16:55 quote

manfrommayo

november77 wrote:
People not answering their messages is just plain rude, after all its the reason we are all here is to view profiles and message each other. if you message someone asking did they have a nice weekend, your not asking them to jump into bed with you, so a simple reply wont take up too much of their precious time. its free to do so its not like your asking for a loan of money lol a few seconds is all it takes, who cares if your interested in the person or not, a simple use of your manners isnt very hard to do.


I agree, they should reply, a lot better to say 'not interested' than to simply ignore someone. In any case, what's wrong with them keeping an open mind? I messaged someone and she deleted the message without even looking at my profile page... strange. Confused

Anyway... I'll bump this thread so it'll appear on my profile page so in future, they'll get the message! Razz

 

02.11.2007, 19:54 quote

Anonymous

But..how about if they ARE asking you to jump into bed with them?

If I get a message saying something like "Hey sexy, you up for it then?" I have no interest in replying. Is that still rude?

 

03.11.2007, 18:20 quote

manfrommayo

HalfLotus wrote:
But..how about if they ARE asking you to jump into bed with them?

If I get a message saying something like "Hey sexy, you up for it then?" I have no interest in replying. Is that still rude?


In those circumstances, then yes, I understand you not replying! Razz

I dunno... I can understand why women want a man's opening message to be original, so they can gauge the man's personality, it's not easy to be original when you're trying to break the ice; I think in any case they should reply with a 'not interested' or start a conversation to see how it goes.

 

06.04.2008, 17:08 quote

dirtydog86

Some people don't have the time to answer questions from strangers about their weekend. It may be deemed as rude but it's just the way it is.

 

09.10.2008, 10:55 quote

kellzey
Joined: 30 Sep 2008 Posts: 1 Location: Ireland, Dublin, Dublin Airport
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dirtydog86 wrote:
Some people don't have the time to answer questions from strangers about their weekend. It may be deemed as rude but it's just the way it is.

get a life some people are just thick like come on not answering to how was ur weekend like mind ur own $ucken business how was urs nothing better to be doing Evil or Very Mad Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Twisted Evil[/quote]

 

09.10.2008, 15:25 quote

lookingforfun7
Joined: 10 Jul 2008 Posts: 186 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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saucer of milk over here he he he

 

11.08.2009, 21:27 quote

melanied
melanied Joined: 12 Sep 2004 Posts: 9 Location: Ireland, ,
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I hate the "how was your weekend" "Hi how are you" messages, they are so boring, if you want a reply from someone, especially women make a bit of an effort, take some time to write something interesting or make them laugh. Especially when you get a lot of messages (nearly 3000) the minor boring ones you are not going to bother with!

 

15.08.2009, 20:22 quote

icepop
Joined: 17 Jul 2009 Posts: 11 Location: Ireland, ,
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Quote:
messaged someone and she deleted the message without even looking at my profile page



how can you tell if someone has deleted your message??

 

16.08.2009, 13:45 quote

lookingforfun7
Joined: 10 Jul 2008 Posts: 186 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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melanied wrote:
I hate the "how was your weekend" "Hi how are you" messages, they are so boring, if you want a reply from someone, especially women make a bit of an effort, take some time to write something interesting or make them laugh. Especially when you get a lot of messages (nearly 3000) the minor boring ones you are not going to bother with!


Hey there, how was your weekend? he he he

 

16.08.2009, 15:00 quote

rossjackson1985
rossjackson1985 Joined: 08 Feb 2009 Posts: 163 Location: United Kingdom, England, Berkshire
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actually.. it's not rude.. threads like this demanding people answer is actually extremely rude and inappropriate.

It is the recipient's prerogative to respond or not. demanding they answer? wrong and probably shows you have some sort of insecurity issues or some other pshycological condition. It is their right to respond or not.

Or perhaps they don't even find you interesting enough to carry on a conversation with you. Are you getting the general jist of this?

man up and stop acting like a child.

 

17.08.2009, 20:16 quote

hoddy

november77 wrote:
People not answering their messages is just plain rude, after all its the reason we are all here is to view profiles and message each other. if you message someone asking did they have a nice weekend, your not asking them to jump into bed with you, so a simple reply wont take up too much of their precious time. its free to do so its not like your asking for a loan of money lol a few seconds is all it takes, who cares if your interested in the person or not, a simple use of your manners isnt very hard to do.

 
 
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